Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but
you should marry her with these facts as well. Here is a girl, who is
as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she
is as human as you are; One, who has never entered the kitchen in her
life just like you or your sister haven ' t, as she was busy in studies
and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for
their culinary achievements
One, who has lived and loved her
parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25
years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all
that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your
ways and even your family ,name
One, who is somehow expected to be
a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in
her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is
expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the
end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet
never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a
wife, even if she doesn ' t want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows
that you won ' t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster
than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes
boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school
days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your
irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent
insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can,
but won ' t, simply because you won ' t like it, even though you say
otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when
deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her
level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her
entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust
her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only
one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your
sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you
may call it.
But not many guys understand this......
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